Supporting Loved Ones with Dementia at Home, Practical Tips for Families
- Russell Crossley
- 2 days ago
- 3 min read
Supporting a loved one with dementia can feel overwhelming at times, especially as their needs, routines and communication gradually change. Many families want to help their loved one remain at home for as long as possible, surrounded by familiarity, comfort and treasured memories. With understanding, patience and the right support, home can remain a safe and meaningful place for those living with dementia.
This guide offers practical tips that families can use every day to make life easier, calmer and more reassuring for their loved ones.
Understanding Dementia and Daily Living
Dementia affects everyone differently. Some people may experience memory loss, while others may struggle with concentration, communication or planning tasks. Recognising how these changes affect daily routines can help families offer the right support.
Small adjustments to the home environment and daily habits can reduce frustration and make everyday life more manageable.
Creating Calm and Predictable Routines
People living with dementia often feel more secure when each day follows a familiar pattern. Predictability and routines reduce anxiety and helps the person understand what is happening next.
Helpful approaches include:
Keeping regular wake up, meal and bedtime routines
Establishing daily activities at the same time each day
Reducing sudden changes to schedules
Offering gentle reminders using a clock, calendar or written notes
Consistency allows the person to feel more in control, even when memory becomes more challenging. This is why Horizons Homecare promotes Consistency through the same carers and punctuality.
Adapt the Home to Support Comfort and Safety
Small changes around the home can make a significant difference. Consider adjustments such as:
Clear lighting in hallways and stairways
Removing clutter to reduce tripping hazards
Labelling doors or cupboards with simple words or pictures
Using contrasting colours for plates or household items
A dementia friendly environment reduces confusion and helps the person navigate their surroundings with confidence.
Communicate with Patience and Reassurance
Communication may become slower or more difficult as dementia progresses. Families can support more positive interactions by:
Speaking slowly in short, simple sentences
Allowing extra time for the person to respond
Maintaining eye contact and using a calm tone
Avoiding correcting or challenging memory lapses
Offering gentle reassurance when the person appears confused
Kindness, patience and validation build trust and reduce emotional distress.
Encourage Activities That Bring Joy
Meaningful activities can help maintain independence, stimulate memory and improve wellbeing. Families may try:
Listening to familiar music
Simple household tasks such as folding laundry
Reminiscing with photos
Gentle exercise
Crafts or puzzles designed for dementia
Regular engagement helps maintain a sense of purpose and can bring moments of connection.
Know When to Seek Additional Support
Caring for a loved one with dementia can be emotionally and physically demanding. Families should not feel they need to manage everything alone. Homecare support can provide practical help with personal care, medication, daily routines or companionship.
Horizons Homecare delivers consistent, unrushed visits with carers who understand dementia care and provide reassurance for both clients and families.
A Message from Horizons Homecare MD, Russell Crossley
Supporting a loved one with dementia requires understanding, compassion and patience. Every family deserves guidance and reassurance, especially during the more challenging moments. At Horizons Homecare, we believe in providing personalised, relationship based care that helps people remain safe and comfortable in their own homes. We are here to support families, offer practical solutions and ensure no one feels alone on their journey with dementia.
Frequently Asked Questions
How can I make the home safer for someone with dementia
Clear lighting, reduced clutter, labels, contrasting colours and simple layouts can help prevent confusion and falls.
What activities help people with dementia at home
Music, photo reminiscing, gentle exercise, simple household tasks and sensory activities often bring comfort and engagement.
How should I communicate with someone living with dementia
Use short sentences, speak calmly, allow time for responses and offer reassurance without correcting mistakes.
When should families consider homecare support
Homecare becomes useful when daily routines, personal care, medication prompts or safety needs become difficult to manage alone.
SOURCES
NHS, Dementia Help and Support:
Alzheimer’s Society, Dementia Information for Families
Age UK, Living Well with Dementia
